Sunday, April 01, 2007

The Right Partner 2

Within 2 weeks, yet another fren has experienced a failed romance. One 37mths long, the other just 7 mths. I wonder y in both cases, the guy's reason (or excuse, depending on who u ask) was that he was unable to see the gal in his future.

In both cases, the guy said tt he can continue the relationship, but it will be bad of him cos he didn't want to waste the gal's time. Furthermore, it will b a lie cos he just couldn't see a future tog.

Honestly, I am in no position to comment, cos every relationship has its own sweetness and conversely, problems. Only the 2 pple involved noe wat went wrong in reality. No breakup is ever easy, but it may b a blessing in disguise.

However, I know it's easier said than practised. Like wat one of my frens said, as long as there's still luv btw the 2, the relationship is still worth working on. Only when the luv isn't there animore, should the 2 pple concerned move on.

Dating is to know each other better, so tt we can walk the longer journey together in future. When the road ends due to incompatibility or just cos luv has died, another rd may b chosen. Or perhaps, some will choose to stand at the same spot, looking backwards at the path taken in the past.

Luv is so sweet when it's there, yet so painful when it leaves our side. Perhaps the best way is to b slow and steady, instead of starting w fireworks, and ending on a quick note, once the fireworks display is over.

I just feel sad tt happiness has come and gone so swiftly for my 2nd fren. Z, u noe tt u aren't to blame for the loss of luv. U r perfectly gd, and the right person will come by one day. Dun lose confidence over tis experience. U hv grown up and tis is all just part n parcel of life. After the airport incident, u alr noe wat we thot. In a sense, it's a blessing, although u wun feel it now. Just rem - Without knowing who's wrong for u, u will never noe who's right for u. Take heart tt u r surrounded by frens who care! There's more to life than luv...take yr time...