Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Wedding Dinner

Attended a wedding dinner tonite and it has brought home the fact tt weddings r always full of joy and happiness and of cos love. Though the whole dinner was very rushing (cos it's a wkdae nite) and the wedding couple had to rush from table to table to take photos, the whole dinner was still one filled with tremendous bliss, luv and happiness.

Of cos it was also a great joy to catch up w ex-colleagues n finding out how they r doing. It is also always nice to receive compliments tt I look better, thinner, more feminine etc. It is't tt I want face, but yes, I want to show the world tt I am better off after moving on. =)

It was actually less of an ordeal than expected sitting w the ex-bosses. In fact, I was teasing my CFO asking him when he will retire, so that I can plan my return to the company. Haha...

But I sidetrack. Sometimes I wonder how couples maintain their relationships after so long. To remain so much in luv even after dating each other for more than 3/5/7 etc years. I noe every couple quarrel, but when does one draw the line and say enuff is enuff? For tt matter, how come luv doesn't decrease? One fren told me tt she felt she was being luved less than in the past. Does tt signal the beginning of the end of the relationship? Or shld she still kick her heels in and stay the course? When do we allow our head to rule over our body/heart, assuming tt our head and heart tell us 2 different things?

Another fren, who just ended a 37mth-long relationship, is still unable to extract herself from the graveyard of her sorrow, and I am deeply concerned by the fact tt she is alternating btw anger and depression. Must we experience sorrow and anger before we can experience real and true love?

Love is indeed a complicated matter and cannot be easily understood nor comprehend. Perhaps there in it may lie its appeal...man should never understand luv, cos luv tt can b understood isn't true and everlasting luv.