Tuesday, November 28, 2006
Been (and gg to be) a busy busy busy week. Busy playing (and less of work) that is...
Fri - D&D at Sheraton Towers
Sat - Church + Dinner@ Tampines
Sun - Went across the causeway into JB
Mon - Jack's Place lunch (again!) + shoping + play pool (supposed to go Escape Themepark, but rainy weather didn't allow)
Tue - Sang KTV for 5 hrs
Wed - Back to work for the last time + dinner after that
Thurs - Rest & Relax at hm to prep myself up for new job on Fri
Fri - 1st day at Work!! + Meet Choir Pals after a long long while...
Sat - If the weather allows, will head for Escape Themepark to make up for the lost trip on Mon
Sun - Church + Prep myself for the week ahead
Getting cold feet thinking about what lies ahead of me at the new place. Hopefully, everything will go smoothly...=)
*Btw, Scotts hving major closing down sales. Alot of stores 50% off and all. Good buys galore!





I feel so luved by everyone in office, and lately I hv been wondering if I made the right decision to leave after 1.5yrs.
The thot of meeting new people, adapting to the culture and accounting system used, possibly problematic colleagues, unsure about the style of my new boss, having to explain my condition to others, feeling vulnerable again. Makes me feel tired.
On the other hand, I do feel a sense of thrill at the new challenges ahead of me. It's true that I am giving up my year-end bonus for this job, but the perks offered should counter this.
Aniwae, been on an eating spree over the last 2 weeks. Let's see if I can recall all:
1. Swensens
2. Jack's Place
3. Magic Wok
4. Diner's Place along Balestier Rd
5. Ichiban Boshi + Swensens ice-cream
6. Sakae Sushi
7. Cafe Cartel
8. Jack's Place again
Getting fat right? Received some gifts from everyone too:
1. 3 tops in delightful colours of light green, orange and a darker green
2. A Piglet cushion
3. Mug - Not sure yet as I hv not opened it yet
4. Sth else that I hv not opened as yet too
5. A watch that I hv not received, but my coll let the cat out of the bag
On my part, I bought them Tian Xia Di Yi Bao for the non-Muslims and curry puffs for the muslims. 40 in all. Carried them back by myself k...=)
Thanks everyone for the well wishes.
Not mine though..so dun get excited over nothing.
As mentioned in my previous post, I was at Pasir Ris Park over the wkend. What I forgot to mention was we witnessed a proposal being carried out! What caught my attention at 1st was the sheer number of balloons. I thot it might be for some gal's 21st Bdae since we were near to the Costa Sands chalet.
So the pink and white helium balloons were being held by frens, while the guy knelt on the floor with a bouquet of flowers. We were not near enough to hear what was being said, but we saw the balloons being released slowly, so the sky was pretty in shades of pink, white and blue, with the sea as a backdrop. The gal was holding an umbrella, with the guy kneeling before her.
The whole episode act looked staged to me, so I was fervently looking around for a camera crew. Maybe they were playing some game. I hoped they videoed everything down. Bet we were in the background of their tape. Haha! History in the making...=)

On Sun, went for my 1st Bible Study class. I thot about wat Pastor said about stepping out and facing our fears for ourselves and not needing to prove anything to others. Principle easy to articulate, harder to fulfil, but try we all must. After tt, had a cameo appearance in a pool tournament. Was a substitute for a fren's fren. In the end, we lost by only 2 balls. Considering I am the kind who rarely play (the last time being at Desaru), I guess I didn't do tt badly (for a female), although my sole purpose was to be the warm body to fill in the slot.
Watched Casino Royale and it was quite a bloody show. Quite nice though, that being my 1st action-packed movie. My movie choices in the past tend towards the romantic, comedy and horror genres, so this was sth new. Not a bad experience I must say. Eye candy in the form of a quite shuai (but old) and muscular guy + mei nus. Worth it to watch as well, cos it stretched to almost 2.5hrs! Had ramen w collagen soup base for dinner. Once again, reinforced the thot tt this restaurant is much better than the more commonly-found Ajisen, but for some reason it always seems so deserted.
A fren msged me yesterday to drop a bombshell revelation, but then again, she has been telling us that all along with no action. I guess ultimately it boils down to what she wants and whether she has been stretched to her very very max alr. I mean, if yes and she can't tahan anymore, I guess she can and will bear w whatever consequences tt cum with the decision. Just tt I guess she's not ready to make tt decision - the heart is willing, but the flesh is weak.
Oh well, aniwae, if only every weekend was like this..I guess I wun hv as much time once I start my new job, but well, we shall see, we shall see....=)
Unfortunately, I shall have to go on a complaint tirade b4 leaving. Just ignore and skip this post if u r tired after a day's work and hv no wish to read someone else's griping.
Considering the fact that I hv around a week left of my notice period, it's amazing tt the authorities can still piss me off. In my current state of mind, I hv decided tt they shall hv to beg me for any more information. I will not voluntarily offer them the information on a platter. When they hv it too easy, they dun appreciate it.
I was so cooperative and even helpful, doing up a timechart of the submissions due for the next half a yr. BUT it wasn't appreciated since the authorities hv decided sth to my detriment. Oh well, 2 can play at this game, so it shall b rest-and-relax for the remaining 5 days.
Honestly, if I am in another company, I would think that the decision made is valid, but cos I hv been tinking all along otherwise, I am still pissed. Thus, I shall still stick w my decision of boycotting all work. He shall rue the day he decided to make me unhappy.
I rose bright and early (for the standard of a social outing) for a 2nd time within a week! Out of the hse before 10am! Isn't that amazing? Like what spinkypinkie said, it will certainly snow this Christmas! Hahah...
Went for breakfast once again (I hv a thing for McDonald's breakfast or for tt matter, any breakfast, since I hvn't woken up early enuff for the last 10 yrs at least for such elaborate breakfasts.) Happy to feed on hotcakes - brings back fond memories of childhood, or mayb it's the effect of advertising. Delightful maple syrup with melting butter on top of the warm hotcakes - Sinful, but delicious!
Although I fully intended to hate Vivocity (cos it's too far from my hse), I must say I was pretty impressed by it. Notwithstanding its sheer size, it also had a roof terrace with mini pools on the highest floor. With the backdrop of the setting sun, alot of pple were dipping their feet into the water while lazing and tokking with their pals by the poolside. Some children were also hving fun with their supersoaker guns. The whole feel was just really good!
Apart from the amazing pools, there was also a pretty fun playground for the children. Though the concept was simple, the playthings were fun! Even I was lured to play (alittle) at the water fountain + 'green hill'.
The GV was very impressive on the outside and before we entered the theatre. However, due to this, I was expecting more from the seats. The seats were just ok. I personally still prefer Cathay's seats. Still on the whole, no complaints.
I hv no idea why people just hv a thing for the sea, ships and seabreeze. But yes, there were SO MANY people on a Tues! Can't believe it...Singaporeans really hv no place to go, I think. Harbourfront was sadly empty in comparison.
All in all, Vivocity certainly should be visited for the experience that Orchard shopping centres can never offer.
I finally found and bought my anti-nail biting nail polish from Carrefour. The story of how we ended up shopping at Carrefour started at 10pm when my frens and I wanted to go shopping but no other shops were open. So we dutifully trooped over to Carrefour with our barang barang. Mind you a total of 7 bags btw the 3 of us! Placed them all into the trolley, which alr occupied 70% of the space in it before starting our hsewife lifestyle. We even ventured to buy 3 packets of durian (1 for each of us) cos the uncle was le-longing his wares to go hm.
Aniwae, what was written on the back of the nail polish box was really funny. Can't rem the exact words, but there was a phrase that went 'when the initial urge to bite has decreased...' It must hv been the way I said it, but my frens were laffing so much.
This weekend has been a record of sorts for me, cos I think I slept very little for a weekend standard. Went out bright and early on Sat to eat Long John breakfast. Been a really long time since I managed to catch breakfast of any sort. Haha..surprisingly the egg-and-cheese toast was really good! Went for Klunch next and once again, plunged into a singing marathon of sorts. If any of u are gg for Klunch, pls rem to bk 1 day in advance, cos it will save u $2 per person ($7 instead of $9/person).
As it was raining pretty heavily, decided on the spur of the moment to catch a movie and that was y I found myself in a cinema barely 5 mins after leaving Kbox. Luckily, the show was pretty gd - at least it has a storyline, the ending was gd, all in all a feel-good movie.
Got waylaid outside UOB/the old OG place and got dragged in for a presentation on travel accommodation for close to 2hrs! At 1st, I honestly regarded it as helping the gal taking our survey (who earned $160 cos we listened to the presentation). But at the end of the 2hrs, I think we were lucky we managed to escape without any harm done to our pockets. It's the usual suspicious setting often read about in the newspapers - loud music, handphone off, drinks provided, constant sales pitch until the value of the deal is thrust into yr face at the end.
I mean, it may really hv been a gd deal, but I couldn't help but resolve (even before stepping in) tt I will not sign anything. I mean if the deal's gd, y can't they offer us the opportunity to go hm and tink about it? They can always hv the offer period open for 3 days or sth. They were just blatently pushy and by the end of the whole thing when it became obvious to them how resolute I am, the mgr just abruptly said she didn't want to waste any more time. I was relieved honestly.
Decided to go for some retail therapy to sooth my raw nerves. Tinking back, the whole episode was really quite scary. What if I lost my senses and signed anything? *shudders*
Continued with my retail therapy on Sun since OG had a 20% storewide sale gg on. All in, bought a watch and suit for my new place. Shld b enuff to start off. Let's see how their officewear culture is like before commiting further cash to my wardrobe. =)
Proceeded to my coll's hse. She can really cook cos her chicken rendang, curry, lotong, fried chicken, briyani rice were all delicious! I was pretty full and yet still ate. Explains the tummy, I suppose. Haha..
Will be on leave tmr..yay!
In any case, I discovered that I really have not visited Suntec for a really long time, way before the IMF thingie started. There are so many changes that I didn't quite know what to expect! Like mountain tortise liddat...Hee...
Bet many people were shocked by the fact that I am changing job once again. It is not that I love to uproot myself from my comfort zone, but necessary changes need to be made. I just hope that the decision is right.
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she can see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, "Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?" The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend is blind too and refused to marry him.
Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying. "Just take care of my eyes dear."
This is how human brain changes when the status changed.
Only few remember what life was before, and who's always been there even in the most painful situations.
Life Is A Gift
Today before you think of saying an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak. Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven. And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job. But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker. And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around.
Life is a gift, Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, And Fulfill it.
Was at PS last afternoon to meet Spinkypinkie for lunch. Before that, went shopping at Daiso while waiting for her. Bought a walking stick for my grandma! The place is so cool..everything at $2! If I really want to, I can spend like a few hrs in there, seeing what to be bought, cos some of the stuff there is really cool! Like a metal hand to pick up keys etc.
Lunch was gd. Just catching up and learning about Spinkpinkie's and Veelo's trip to Korea. Everything felt right. What a great afternoon!
The decision has been made and I have signed on the dotted line. I have tendered my resignation and will be heading for a new job, new career, with, I hope, better prospects and nice colleagues.
I think this will come as a surprise to most of you. I deliberated over my move a fair bit, but the offer was too good. I have no reason to reject it. So yah, this is the big decision I made.
Moving on to my 3rd job in my short career of 3 years. I wonder if this makes me a frequent job-hopper. My fren commented that I seem so at ease at uprooting myself from my comfort zone, to take on yet another new job, with new duties and responsibilities, getting to know new people all over again, having to explain myself once again. Sometimes, I wonder if I am too adept at this too.
In the past year, I think I have grown up a fair bit. From a young gal who did not have a care in this world to one who knows about the meaning of job loss and the effect it has on families. From not thinking before I speak to deliberating over decisions made and their repercussions.
It's funny how my mood can plumment from a high to a current low. I shld be happy and yes, to a certain extent, I am rejoicing. I shall rem Matthew 6: 25-34 - Do Not Worry.
Everything tt needs to be said has been said. Everything that needs to be done is done. I am on my way to greener pasture.
Einstein pointed out that "The significant problems we face today cannot be solved at the same level we were at when we created them." To get different results -- change -- we must do things differently.
The framework of this model is divided into seven distinct levels -- from easy to impossible - across a spectrum of continual change (continuous innovation) over increasing levels of difficulty.
url: http://o3.indiatimes.com/knowledge_experience_wisdom/
Each level is progressively more complex, more difficult to undertake that the preceding level. Consider the 7 Levels of Change in the context of moving into a new job or a new business activity to which you have not before been exposed.
LEVEL 1: Effectiveness - DOING the right things
The easiest change to make is to learn the basics - what are the right things to do and how to immediately change enough to become effective in a new job. The Pareto Principle states that 20% of the things being done actually yield 80% of the total payoff. To maximize effectiveness, energy must be shifted to and focused on doing that 20% (the right things).
LEVEL 2: Efficiency - DOING things right
Level 2 changes requires a thorough understanding of all the aspects of the new job or business activity in order to identify and then focus on doing very well those things which have the most important impact and make the largest contribution. Level 2 changes are based largely on personally adjusting to new standards and procedures, and involve coaching or explanations by others familiar with the job or business activity.
LEVEL 3: Improving - DOING things better
Change at this level involves thinking about ways to improve or fine-tune -- ways to speed things up, shorten delivery time, increase functionality, reduce downtime. Level 3 change makes something more effective, more efficient, more productive, and more value-adding - frequently with customer input.
LEVEL 4: Cutting - Stopping DOING things
This level of change involves analysis of core functions and applies the Pareto Principle to focus on stopping doing things - cutting out the 80% of things that only yield 20% of the value. In the simplest case, change at Level 4 focuses on eliminating waste. If this can be done systemically while keeping all organizational interrelationships and subsystems in perspective, major company-wide results can be achieved.
LEVEL 5: Copying - DOING things other people are doing
Level 5 marks the transition from incremental to fundamental change. Copying, learning from, and "reverse engineering" can dramatically boost innovation at significantly lower costs than starting from scratch. Benchmarking how other organizations are doing things and then enhancing upon their processes is the hallmark of the successful innovator.
LEVEL 6: Different - DOING things no one else is doing
Change at Level 6 is about either doing something very different or doing something very differently - and transitions into degrees of novelty which not only move an organization "out-of-the-box", they move the organization into areas where nobody else is doing it. Level 6 is a shift into 3-Sigma thinking. Such trailblazing and greater degrees of risk-taking can bring about genuinely new things, often by synthesizing seemingly unconnected concepts and technologies - or by totally shifting perspective around the possible uses of a product.
LEVEL 7: Impossible - DOING things that can't be done
"What is today impossible, but if it were possible it would fundamentally change the way you do business?" Joel Barker's famous question reframes thinking extremely well for Level 7. Market constraints, resource limitations, or company culture are too often seen as insurmountable barriers. As a result, discoveries at Level 7 frequently build on major mindshifts connected with exploratory thrusts into the unknown - bold, significant and long-term visions and change so different that it cannot be compared to anything else known at the time.
Any change requires time, resources and personal energy. The higher the level of change, the more time, resources and personal energy the change will require in implementation. Further, it is not a straight-line relationship across the 7 levels; it is geometric and explodes in terms of difficulty as the change level increases.
Source: www.thinking-expedition.com